Hi, I’m Suzanne...I help women make new connections, build genuine friendships and thrive in midlife together. Because life is better with friends by your side.
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Hi Reader... I don't know about you...but nobody warned me about this part of midlife… An injury. A surgery you didn't plan on. A couple of weeks ago, I texted my cousin. I asked her if she'd ever had a knee replacement. Because I found out I might need one. And I wanted to hear how it went…what to expect…anything I should know. As it turns out, she never had one. But here's what she texted me back… "When you have your surgery I'll come stay with you and help you, until you can manage on your own." Just like that. I didn't ask her to. I didn't hint at it. She just offered. And that truly meant more to me than she’ll ever know. Here's why I'm telling you this… I only texted her a simple question. But because I opened up about what was going on in my life… She offered before I could even ask for help. And that's the thing about being open and vulnerable. The right people will step up. They'll offer help. Sometimes before you even know you need it. But here's the catch… They can't show up for you…if they don't know what you're going through. So don't be afraid to share and open up. Because that's often when the right people show you…they're right there for you. Always remember...life is better when you share it with friends. With love, P.S. One more thing...are you in The Friendship Connection yet? It's our free private Facebook group, where women in midlife make new friends. I'd love to see you in there! :) Join here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/friendsconnection |
Suzanne Oshima
Hi, I’m Suzanne...I help women make new connections, build genuine friendships and thrive in midlife together. Because life is better with friends by your side.
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