this wasn't on my bingo card


Hi Reader...

A couple of weeks ago, I was wrapping up a fun summer vacation in NY.

A girls' beach trip out to Montauk...then a few days in New York City.

I was really looking forward to the last few days of the trip...catching up with girlfriends, good food and great conversations.

At least…that was my plan.

But the next morning...I woke up sicker than sick.

Coughing. Chills. A fever.

Normally I'd just shrug it off as the flu.

But not this time.

There was a legionnaire's outbreak spreading through NYC...and I had a lot of the symptoms.

Ugh!

There I was…3000 miles away from home.

No family. No one to take care of me.

Just me…lying in a hotel bed, completely alone.

This was not on my vacation bingo card.

Lying there…I couldn't stop thinking.

Who is really here for me...when I'm sick and alone?

When I need someone the most?

The good news is…I wasn’t as alone as I thought.

Find out what happened on my latest blog post => https://suzanneoshima.com/midlife-friendships-matter/

And always remember...life is better when you share it with friends.

With love,

Suzanne
Life Coach for Women in Midlife

P.S. Do you feel like it's time to make new friends?

If you're ready to make new friends, but you don't know where to start, download my free eBook, "It's Never Too Late to Make New Friends in Midlife"

Grab it here, it's free => https://suzanneoshima.com/friends-ebook/

Suzanne Oshima

Hi, I’m Suzanne...I help women make new connections, build genuine friendships and thrive in midlife together. Because life is better with friends by your side.

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