Hi, I’m Suzanne...I help women make new connections, build genuine friendships and thrive in midlife together. Because life is better with friends by your side.
How to Make Friends as an Adult (My Simple Secret)
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Hi Reader... Yesterday, I was on the phone with a close friend. She was telling me about her daughter…who's in her 20s and having a really hard time making new friends. My friend asked me… "How do you do it? You make new friends everywhere you go." And honestly…I had to stop and think about it for a second. Because it's not something I plan. But here's what I told her… I talk to everyone and anyone. Wherever I am. Whether it’s at the grocery store. Waiting to board a plane. Standing in line for coffee. I'll make a comment. Or ask a simple question. I’m just friendly to everyone. Most of the time…it's just a nice little moment and that's it. But every once in a while… That one small conversation opens a door…to a real connection. Like the friend I met over 11 years ago at an event in Washington D.C. I didn't know a soul there. So I sat down next to a woman who I thought looked friendly and started talking. We stayed in touch. And guess what? Just this morning…she texted me. Checking in, years later. All because I just opened myself up and talked to someone sitting next to me. Here's why I'm telling you this… Making new friends can really be that simple. It's not about being the most outgoing person in the room. It's not about walking in and working the whole crowd. Trust me, it’s not…because that’s not me, either. All it’s about is…being open and friendly. Talking to the people around you wherever you are. The woman next to you in line. The stranger sitting beside you at an event. Most conversations will be just that…a nice moment. But every so often…one of them will turn into a friend. And remember… The more people you talk to…the more chances you have for a new friendship to begin. So today…talk to someone. Smile and say hello. Make a comment. Ask a question. You never know…the person right next might become your next new friend. Always remember…life is better when you share it with friends. With love, Suzanne P.S. If you liked the simple way I make new friends, I put it all in my free eBook..."It's Never Too Late to Make New Friends in Midlife." Grab your copy here => https://suzanneoshima.com/friends-ebook/ |
Suzanne Oshima
Hi, I’m Suzanne...I help women make new connections, build genuine friendships and thrive in midlife together. Because life is better with friends by your side.
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